I'm sorry I haven't updated over the weekend, I was extremely busy and hardly home. Of course my camera is still broke, so I don't have pictures yet. I will though, because everyone is sending me theirs, yay!
Saturday went really good over at my aunt's house. We all had a good time, except the kids ended up getting bored after awhile when my brothers went off to hang out with my cousins. I am the oldest grandchild, and only one of my other cousins has a kid, but she wasn't there. That's the part that really sucks about going to my family functions, my kids always end up bored. It was great to see my grandparents and aunts and uncles. I can't believe they've been together for 50 years! That's just amazing, and hard to find these days. Divorce and affairs are such second nature to so many people in society, it's a little disheartening.
My little sister came with us (the first time I've spent a day with her since she moved with her b/f 2 months ago) and I talked her into hanging out with us around the fire and spending the night. I have to respect her privacy so I can't go into major details. However, my sister just turned 18 in December and she started secretly seeing this guy before then. He is 30 years old with 2 kids! My age. How sick is that? His oldest daughter is 12. How's he gonna feel when a 30 y/o pervert tries to get with his daughter? Anyway, turns out he is not just a pervert, he's also a controlling piece of s&*t He didn't stop calling her all night, and ended up picking her up at 12:30am. There's so much more to it than that, and he pissed me off SOOO bad, worse than anyone has in a long time. I was ready to kick his ass. I hate him, and I wish he would die.
Ok, on to a better day. Father's Day was nice. We took the kids swimming at the b/f's aunt's house. They had a good time. I was in a funk because of Saturday, honestly I'm still bothered by it today. I feel helpless, and I don't want my sister to wreck the best years of her life because of a controlling bastard. Ugh, and I got into that again, sorry! The kids swam all day with their cousins and friends. The b/f and I even stopped to pick my brothers up at one time, but they didn't swim. I did get in an argument with my mom, a pretty big one. She made me frickin cry lol. She can be such a bitch, and if you try telling her something that's wrong about her (like the fact that she spent half the day in the bar and pissed my dad off on Father's Day, when she agreed to spend the day with him and the kids) she turns it all around and tries to make little things you do sound so much worse then her faults, that EVERYONE sees btw.
So that's my disfunction for you. I'm glad the weekend is over, and I can just chill with my 'real' family for now, and not have to worry about drama. There are so many times that I tell the b/f how much I love him because of the fact that together, we have a normal family and we would never do this kind of stupid stuff to our kids, and they know how much we love them and that we would both die for them if it came down to it.